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Funerals and memorials can take many forms. Some people choose a traditional service, while others prefer a simple gathering, a celebration of life, or even an event held before death. What matters most is that the farewell reflects the person’s identity, values and what is meaningful to those close to them.

A service can be held in a funeral home, at home, on Country, in nature or any location that holds significance. It may be formal or informal, large or small. Cultural, religious and spiritual practices can be included, and choices such as burial, cremation or other options can be explored. A funeral director can support all or part of the arrangements, and families are free to compare services to find someone who aligns with their needs. Of course, a funeral may not be held at all, this is up to the individual and those around them to decide.

People attending a funeral, wake or memorial may also choose to light candles, write messages, create a memory book or plant a tree. Some families prefer to hold a viewing or vigil at home or another meaningful place before the burial or cremation.

Funeral planning checklist

Overall wishes

  • Preferred type of farewell (funeral, memorial, wake, or no service)
  • Preferred location for the service
  • People or representatives involved in planning or leading the event

Cultural, religious or spiritual practices to be included

  • Personal elements
  • Preferred music, readings or prayers
  • Clothing or items to be used
  • Flowers, photos or meaningful objects to include
  • Preferred coffin style (traditional, cardboard, eco-friendly)
  • Interests, hobbies or personality elements to be reflected

Practical considerations

  • Choice of burial, cremation or other option
  • Preference for a viewing or vigil
  • Selected funeral director or alternative arrangements
  • Key contacts to notify at the time of death

Ways others may honour the person

  • Writing messages, letters or memories
  • Creating a memory box, book or photo collection
  • Lighting candles, planting a tree or scattering ashes (where appropriate)